Browsing through some old pregnancy books the other day I felt
depressed all over again at the sight of so many glowing faces and
pregnant-yet-still-sexy silhouettes in the illustrations. Not a
stretchmark in sight between the lot of them. No 're-purposed'
wastepaper bins in evidence. No retching at the mere whiff of a fridge door opening within a half-mile vicinity
of their airtouched nostrils. And certainly nothing to indicate that
any of the women were semi-disabled by pregnancy-related pelvic pain
that made it hard even to turn over in bed at night, much less take
part in a photo shoot. I know, I know, publishers have to sell the books, but still.....
An estimated one in five women suffer debilitating pelvic pain in
pregnancy - albeit in varying degrees of intensity. But most mainstream
pregnancy books, wonderful and informative though they are in many respects, simply don't carry much information about pelvic girdle
pain in pregnancy. I don't know why not. My impression - I could be
wrong - is that more generally - even in the medical community -
there's not as much information available about the condition as there
might be. The dearth of information is particularly sad, as any woman
stuck at home all day in considerable pain, blaming herself for her
immobility, is going to be isolated anyway, or at least limited
in her social contact. The lack of information only exacerbates her
difficulties. I found my lovely midwife and GP were both sympathetic and
supportive, and I'm extremely grateful for all the skilled care I received from them and many others in the NHS during and after both my pregnancies, but it was only when chatting with an old schoolfriend (a
physio by background) that I stumbled by accident on the vital fact that innovative
physiotheraphy techniques are being pioneered that make pelvic girdle
pain treatable. Up until then I'd got the impression it was just something you had to put up with, if you were unlucky enough to be afflicted in the first place. The bad news? This treatment wasn't available in the NHS - not in my part of the country, anyway.
It's good to know that new charity PINS,
which presents a compassionate and realistic picture of what pregnancy
can be like for many women, is working to let more people know all about the
condition, ranging from the risk factors that may make some women more
likely to get pregnancy-related pelvic pain than others, to the latest
treatments available. It has hints and tips for managing the condition and personal accounts from its members, so people will feel less alone in their struggles. Even better is that the charity is waiving its membership fee until
its AGM next month, so if you have been affected by any issues relating
to pelvic girdle pain in pregnancy you can join up for free.
Benefits include the charity's quarterly newsletter and the chance to
meet on-line and swap tips with others suffering the same difficulties. Even
though I'm no longer pregnant (Button turns nine months this week) and
luckily my joint pain has lifted, I've joined PINS, so I can support other
people with the condition and make better sense of what happened to me.
Anybody who fancies a spot of Easter egg painting over the coming week can head along to St George's West Church in Edinburgh, where children over three and their carer can spend an hour every afternoon having fun painting and decorating. The event, which runs from 2-3pm daily from 13-17 April, is free, but places are limited and the organisers ask that anyone interested please call 0131 225 7001 or drop a line to mail@stgeorgeswest.com to book a place.
Other news....
I'll be announcing the winners of the draw for two free copies of Instructions Not Included over the next week.