PostingUnfit for human consumption

This posting was meant to be all about a trip Beanie and I made yesterday to visit a local attraction that opens to the public only a handful of times every year. This local well features some fine mosaics, statues and columns and we had a good visit to its dank interior, despite the notice warning the water was 'unfit for human consumption'. Someone had thought to put tea lights around the pump, which gave the well an atmospheric, almost religious feel. Beanie made friends with a Scots terrier called Toby.

I say 'meant to be' because shortly after we got home Beanie was ferrying some toys from a basket in the window over to me when she tripped on a cushion, fell and cut open her forehead on the coffee table, blood spurting everywhere. She looked so indignant and shocked, as much as anything else, it broke my heart. It happened in an instant, as we heard people warning these things would do.

Luckily, there's not been too much damage. She calmed down quite quickly before I drove her to hospital, where they saw her almost immediately and patched her up. They don't think there'll be much of a scar, and with luck the cut will heal in a few days. Seeing some of the other children there and the state they were in, I began to wonder if I was making too much of a fuss, since I was crying more than Beanie by this point. Beanie's Grandad came over to lend moral support, since Granny was out on the golf course, in a fight-to-the-death with other members of the Veteran Ladies team, and Va-vay was away.

Talk about stable doors/bolting horses, but last night I taped some old towels to the table corners to prevent a repeat. As for Beanie, she has recovered her old jubilance and now looks quite the proper member of a pirate crew, sporting a bandage over her left eye, which she scratches at from time to time.

Posted 27 August 2007 09:42

Daughter Health Home Safety

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DJ Kirkby said:

Urgh awful! Poor you and Beanie! I bawled my eyes out after N3S had been stung by a wasp because he was so distressed and asked for an hour why it had 'bit' him. I reassure myself that normals mums get upset when their children are hurt and that it is normal for children to get hurt!

Posted 27 August 2007 10:21

Mother at Large said:

DJ, great! I've convinced you I'm normal!

Posted 27 August 2007 10:39

Erica said:

Poor Beanie, we had a patio fall yesterday...it happens, still upsetting though.

Posted 27 August 2007 11:27

Mother at Large said:

Erica, sorry to hear Erin was also in the wars. :(

Posted 27 August 2007 12:25

VT said:

Awful for both of you. Hope the bandage can come off soon.

Posted 27 August 2007 13:17

VT said:

Awful for both of you. Hope the bandage can come off soon.

Posted 27 August 2007 13:17

Mother at Large said:

Thanks, VT. The bandage makes it look worse than it was. Bad afternoon :(

Posted 27 August 2007 15:30

Vanessa said:

How awful - hug her from me! If it's any consolation their little injuries grow traumatic to parents as time goes on. By the time she's 15 you'll do what my mother did when my brother fell out of a tree and tell her to rub it and it will be fine. In the case of my brother it was discovered two days later that he'd actually fractured his arm...

Love the sound of the eye patch - maybe her new nickname should be Nancy Blackett? (Swallows and Amazons)

Posted 27 August 2007 16:07

Mother at Large said:

Vanessa, well, there is an argument for stoicism but medical attention is good too! Love the idea of the Nancy Blackett nickname.

Posted 27 August 2007 16:15

Omega Mum said:

The second time it happens, you're wondering whether they'll alert social services. The third time, you're staunching the blood with one hand, catching up with the papers with the other and wondering vaguely how pushy it'ud be to demand that all the medical staff wash the old blood and pus off their hands before attending to your child. Hope you're all better soon.

Posted 27 August 2007 19:47

Mother at Large said:

Thanks, OM, for showing me the future. It ain't pretty, and there's certainly a lot of blood and pus in it.

Posted 27 August 2007 20:38

Jo Beaufoix said:

Ahh, hope you're all feeling better.



It's so scary when these things happen.

There's just that sense of dread where you think, 'Oh God, how bad is it?'



So glad she's coping with her new look.

Posted 27 August 2007 21:30

Mother at Large said:

Jo B, that's exactly how it was. Maybe I'll show her your ostrich as a treat!

Posted 27 August 2007 21:55

selfemployedmum said:

Poor Beanie, hope you're both ok.

This reminded me of the time when my son (age 3)had a meningitis type rash and was rushed to hospital, I couldn't stay with him while he got blood taken from his hand as I was frightened I passed out (and sobbing uncontrollably). I cried solid for about 7 hours, once he got over the shock of the needle and his mother leaving him with stange doctors and nurses he was fine. I still beat myself up with guilt and that was 7 years ago. Oh yeah and they couldn't find anything wrong with him, blood results were clear, child showed no sign of illness, 4 month old daughter at home was well looked after and I was admitted to a mental institution (only joking) but am sure the nurses thought I was a nutcase. First real scary illness and I'd just had a baby!

Posted 27 August 2007 23:28

selfemployedmum said:

You thought I'd gone, but I'm back.

Just a query. Am I missing something, how do I leave my name so that you can click it and enter my blog. I have tried leaving my name in varying ways and it just appears that way. I'm sure you've notice or maybe you thought that I am in need of a padded cell right enough! Hope you know what I'm talking about.

Posted 27 August 2007 23:33

iota said:

Oh, poor old you. And poor Beanie. It wasn't some ghastly curse of the old well was it?

Posted 28 August 2007 02:33

Frog in the Field said:

Oh, you poor things.



I think I must be on the pitch black list in the local A & E.



I too, cried more than my daughter when she split her head open. The nurses told my husband to calm me down. I hope this is the worst she will ever do, I have tears in my eyes thinking about it. Let me tell you this..it's not your fault it happened.



Children are just so precious, but they don't know that and go at a hundred miles an hour into everything, especially dangerous situations. I have to make a concerted effort to let my children have the normal freedom they need.

Posted 28 August 2007 08:57

Joyfulgirl said:

What a horrible day for you both but good there is no serious damage. I'm sure you feel that because you were there when it happened it could have been prevented - but these things seem to happen even when you are standing right next to them. Her poor little face and head which you spent the early months handling as carefully as a crystal vase - on more than one occassion I have wished there was some type of protective helmet for toddlers!

Posted 28 August 2007 09:01

Mother at Large said:

SEM, that sounds stressful with such a young baby at home. Yes, like you I try extra hard to look normal because I'm worried the nurses will think I'm a nutter.



About your url, if you enter the full title with the http:// at the beginning in the website window it should come up okay. I added the http:// just now and your site's coming up fine. Heading over there to say hello.



Iota, that'll teach me to call it 'dank'. Is probably why they lock it up most of the year. It's named for a saint (Bernard) who was a local forester. The coffee table Beanie bumped into was wooden.... could there be a connection?



FITF, it's tempting to wrap Beanie in the towels and sheets I've put round the coffee table!



Joyfulgirl, if you ever find one of those protective helmets let me know!

Posted 28 August 2007 09:55

Stay at home dad said:

Poor Beanie. We've been lucky in this respect but a friend's child staying with us did the same. She was cheerful throughout, but the mixture of hangover and gaping wound made me feel very queasy. Hope she's better now.

Posted 28 August 2007 11:32

debio said:

Oh poor you - and poor Beanie.



Why is there always so much blood?

Posted 28 August 2007 12:43

Mother at Large said:

SAHD, thanks. It is a bit horrid. But all's well now.



Debio, good question. And thanks!

Posted 28 August 2007 14:10

Flowerpot said:

you poor thing, how terrifying. Hugs to you all.

Posted 28 August 2007 17:32

Mother at Large said:

Dear Flowerpot, thanks! Will give Beanie big hug from her Auntie Flowerpot.

Posted 28 August 2007 18:03


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